Things that Men and Women Find Boring in Bed
November 10, 2018 (No Comments) by Zuzanna Piasek

Although, sex can be exciting and passionate at the beginning of a relationship. The flame can diminish and quickly cause you to go into a boring ritual under the covers. Communication can be off and things might not be as exciting as one would like.

So with that, we’ve taken a look at some of the things that men and women find most boring in bed. We’ve also got some tips and tricks to help spice up this area, so you can avoid the mistakes in the future.

Lack of Visual Appeal

Feeling comfortable in a relationship can be very important but slipping into something more sexy can make things a lot more exciting for both men and women. If you’re constantly in your cosy pyjamas, your partner might get the impression you are ready for sleep. Inevitably, this will lead to boring and quick sex. It’s important, whether you are dating or not to incorporate something that will attract an other halves attention from the start.

disinterested-couple

Don’t think that because you are the man that you can just sit back. A woman appreciates good underwear just as much as any man does. Women this is your chance to fulfil any fantasies that you have always wanted to try and dress up to whatever extent you would like. This can help things move along quicker and easier and leave both partners satisfied and wanting more. If you stop trying then guess what, your partner will also see that you have stopped trying.

Not Trying New Things

Experimenting more with your partner can get you excited for the next time you see them. There is a whole variety of ways that you can spice up your sex life. Have a conversation about things that you like, new things that you would like to try and take it from there. Take a blind quiz, share it with each other and see what you are both into to get involved.

If you’re stuck in the loop of doing the same thing all the time, both parties can start to feel bored. Maybe there is something one of you has wanted to try for a long time, but never had the courage to do it. Don’t be shy and try saying it, you never know, you might just get something amazing out of it.

Sticking to a Schedule

Nobody wants to be on a schedule when it comes to sex. Do it in the morning, middle of the day, sneak away for a little bit or wake up in the middle of the night. Don’t be constrained by social norms, if the mood strikes after dinner, the dishes can wait!

Couple washing up in kitchen, woman smiling at man

Nothing is stopping you if you’re adventurous enough and nobody can object to an unexpected good time. Basically if you are stuck in a schedule for sex it will be boring , leave the schedules for work.

Not Going The Extra Mile

This one is for the men. Women love if you put in a bit of romance. Cook a fancy meal, put out some candles and romantic music or perhaps buy a lovely set of flowers. Nobody wants to just constant sex every day in bed casually, it doesn’t harm a woman to be charmed.

This can improve your sex life drastically as doing something nice for someone automatically makes them happier and more in the mood. Personalising the event can make it far more special for your partner.

The Same Positions

If you find yourself stuck in the same positions over and over again, the ritual can become boring, shocker! So, next time you find yourself getting intimate, maybe try something new or not what you’re usually comfortable doing. This could help you find something brand new you love and make your sex life more exciting in the long run.

10-health-benefits-of-keeping-sexually-active

Phones Instead of Foreplay

Nobody wants to jump right into the act so taking things slow can really help but that doesn’t mean checking your social channels first. Females can find it boring when a man doesn’t want to wait around and just gets right into it.

apps-that-will-improve-your-love-life

Remember that getting rid of the android and adding a bit of ambiance can prove rewarding for both parties. That work email will still be waiting afterwards, so put more work in beforehand and make the whole experience that bit more special and longer.

Not Being Vocal or Being Too Vocal

Moaning and expressing your satisfaction can be key in your sex life, but some people just simply don’t react to it well. This can create tension during sex. Being either too silent or just too loud can really kill excitement levels. Communicate beforehand to know what works with your partner.

Not Enough Passion

Sex without attachments can have its benefits but some people will find sex boring if there is no passion to it. Not adding passion to the equation can cause sex to become robotic and more of a chore than anything else. Giving a compliment or appreciating someone can go a long way!

couple-arguing

When It’s All You Ever Do

Having sex can be great but if all you ever meet up for is sex, then your sex life will quickly fizzle out. Taking a break can also be necessary to allow feelings and emotions to blossom instead of getting into a boring routine. This will make sex more enjoyable for both of you and allow a relationship to develop.

Making The First Move

If you are never the first one to make a move, your partner will quickly grow bored of asking you, let alone having sex with you. It’s no fun when you are the one who is constantly having to chase the person around. This will cause frustrations in the relationship and can ruin your sex life.

simple-reasons-your-relationship-is-failing

Not Complimenting Bedroom Skills

A simple rule is to compliment each other regularly and keep a positive look on life. This will not only improve your day to day life but should also help keep your sex life without problems. Throwing in a few positive comments a day is huge. Also appreciating your partner, can help tremendously to avoid getting bored when in the bedroom as you are more focused on the relationship.

Lack of Communication

Communication is key! This is true in so many aspects of life, especially when it comes to sex. If you are able to communicate effectively in life and say what you like, things will become a whole lot easier.

The problem of boredom will not arise, as men and women simply won’t be bored if they know what’s happening in their sex life. So, whether it’s your partner you are talking to, or a stranger, use your words to indicate what you want.

couple fighting

So, if you find yourself getting bored in bed, see if any of these things bedroom problems affects you. Who knows, maybe you’ll find something that you never knew you liked before. Be safe and have fun. Don’t let your sex life be ruined by something simple and explore all the possibilities.

Zuzanna Piasek
Passionate about all things creative including food and hoping to spread a few good messages. I believe the most important thing you’ll ever do is stay true to yourself, so be free and be you!

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Things that Men and Women Find Boring in Bed
November 10, 2018 (No Comments) by Zuzanna Piasek

Although, sex can be exciting and passionate at the beginning of a relationship. The flame can diminish and quickly cause you to go into a boring ritual under the covers. Communication can be off and things might not be as exciting as one would like.

So with that, we’ve taken a look at some of the things that men and women find most boring in bed. We’ve also got some tips and tricks to help spice up this area, so you can avoid the mistakes in the future.

Lack of Visual Appeal

Feeling comfortable in a relationship can be very important but slipping into something more sexy can make things a lot more exciting for both men and women. If you’re constantly in your cosy pyjamas, your partner might get the impression you are ready for sleep. Inevitably, this will lead to boring and quick sex. It’s important, whether you are dating or not to incorporate something that will attract an other halves attention from the start.

disinterested-couple

Don’t think that because you are the man that you can just sit back. A woman appreciates good underwear just as much as any man does. Women this is your chance to fulfil any fantasies that you have always wanted to try and dress up to whatever extent you would like. This can help things move along quicker and easier and leave both partners satisfied and wanting more. If you stop trying then guess what, your partner will also see that you have stopped trying.

Not Trying New Things

Experimenting more with your partner can get you excited for the next time you see them. There is a whole variety of ways that you can spice up your sex life. Have a conversation about things that you like, new things that you would like to try and take it from there. Take a blind quiz, share it with each other and see what you are both into to get involved.

If you’re stuck in the loop of doing the same thing all the time, both parties can start to feel bored. Maybe there is something one of you has wanted to try for a long time, but never had the courage to do it. Don’t be shy and try saying it, you never know, you might just get something amazing out of it.

Sticking to a Schedule

Nobody wants to be on a schedule when it comes to sex. Do it in the morning, middle of the day, sneak away for a little bit or wake up in the middle of the night. Don’t be constrained by social norms, if the mood strikes after dinner, the dishes can wait!

Couple washing up in kitchen, woman smiling at man

Nothing is stopping you if you’re adventurous enough and nobody can object to an unexpected good time. Basically if you are stuck in a schedule for sex it will be boring , leave the schedules for work.

Not Going The Extra Mile

This one is for the men. Women love if you put in a bit of romance. Cook a fancy meal, put out some candles and romantic music or perhaps buy a lovely set of flowers. Nobody wants to just constant sex every day in bed casually, it doesn’t harm a woman to be charmed.

This can improve your sex life drastically as doing something nice for someone automatically makes them happier and more in the mood. Personalising the event can make it far more special for your partner.

The Same Positions

If you find yourself stuck in the same positions over and over again, the ritual can become boring, shocker! So, next time you find yourself getting intimate, maybe try something new or not what you’re usually comfortable doing. This could help you find something brand new you love and make your sex life more exciting in the long run.

10-health-benefits-of-keeping-sexually-active

Phones Instead of Foreplay

Nobody wants to jump right into the act so taking things slow can really help but that doesn’t mean checking your social channels first. Females can find it boring when a man doesn’t want to wait around and just gets right into it.

apps-that-will-improve-your-love-life

Remember that getting rid of the android and adding a bit of ambiance can prove rewarding for both parties. That work email will still be waiting afterwards, so put more work in beforehand and make the whole experience that bit more special and longer.

Not Being Vocal or Being Too Vocal

Moaning and expressing your satisfaction can be key in your sex life, but some people just simply don’t react to it well. This can create tension during sex. Being either too silent or just too loud can really kill excitement levels. Communicate beforehand to know what works with your partner.

Not Enough Passion

Sex without attachments can have its benefits but some people will find sex boring if there is no passion to it. Not adding passion to the equation can cause sex to become robotic and more of a chore than anything else. Giving a compliment or appreciating someone can go a long way!

couple-arguing

When It’s All You Ever Do

Having sex can be great but if all you ever meet up for is sex, then your sex life will quickly fizzle out. Taking a break can also be necessary to allow feelings and emotions to blossom instead of getting into a boring routine. This will make sex more enjoyable for both of you and allow a relationship to develop.

Making The First Move

If you are never the first one to make a move, your partner will quickly grow bored of asking you, let alone having sex with you. It’s no fun when you are the one who is constantly having to chase the person around. This will cause frustrations in the relationship and can ruin your sex life.

simple-reasons-your-relationship-is-failing

Not Complimenting Bedroom Skills

A simple rule is to compliment each other regularly and keep a positive look on life. This will not only improve your day to day life but should also help keep your sex life without problems. Throwing in a few positive comments a day is huge. Also appreciating your partner, can help tremendously to avoid getting bored when in the bedroom as you are more focused on the relationship.

Lack of Communication

Communication is key! This is true in so many aspects of life, especially when it comes to sex. If you are able to communicate effectively in life and say what you like, things will become a whole lot easier.

The problem of boredom will not arise, as men and women simply won’t be bored if they know what’s happening in their sex life. So, whether it’s your partner you are talking to, or a stranger, use your words to indicate what you want.

couple fighting

So, if you find yourself getting bored in bed, see if any of these things bedroom problems affects you. Who knows, maybe you’ll find something that you never knew you liked before. Be safe and have fun. Don’t let your sex life be ruined by something simple and explore all the possibilities.

Zuzanna Piasek
Passionate about all things creative including food and hoping to spread a few good messages. I believe the most important thing you’ll ever do is stay true to yourself, so be free and be you!

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